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Twins Weston and Bennett are four, not quite old enough to make mom breakfast by themselves, but old enough to deliver it.
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It would be a rare day of rest for Alisha, who estimates she averages at least three days a week on the road, driving her sons in from their Langley home for cancer treatments at B.C. Children含羞草研究社檚 Hospital (BCCH) in Vancouver, a route so familiar and automatic that she can arrive without remembering any of the turns along the way.
Her boys were both diagnosed with the same type of cancer, Acute Lymphoblastic Leukemia, within a few months of each other, in 2022.
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A video of their hospital visits, provided to the Langley Advance Times, showed the brothers happily rampaging through the hallways at BCCH with a toy wagon, showing they know where the switch is to open automatic doors, and the route to the outdoor play area.
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The Mickey Mouse-loving twins enjoy playing with their older brother and cuddling with their 含羞草研究社楴ana含羞草研究社 含羞草研究社 grandma and spending time with their 含羞草研究社楢untie,含羞草研究社 Alisha含羞草研究社檚 sister.
Alisha has also found support from what she described as a community of moms in similar situations.
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Alisha is telling her family含羞草研究社檚 story to support BCCH, which is the only hospital in the province devoted exclusively to the care of children and youth.
Donor funding, through the B.C. Children含羞草研究社檚 Hospital Foundation, goes to providing medical equipment, help fund leading pediatric research and clinical care, and enhancing facilities, programs and initiatives.
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