Domestic violence is more prevalent than we think it is.

That is one of the first facts that people need to learn during Domestic Violence Awareness Month, stated Kelowna Women含羞草研究社檚 Shelter (KWS) development manager Ester Pike.

She said November is always an important month for the shelter as it含羞草研究社檚 a chance for them to educate and get the community involved in their advocacy work.

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Pike said oftentimes, people don含羞草研究社檛 realize that domestic violence happens more often than they think it does.

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含羞草研究社淎nd when you put that into the context of the population of Canada, that含羞草研究社檚 quite a lot of women who do end up in that situation.含羞草研究社�

The as well, she added. When people were first told to stay home, the assumption was only going to be for two weeks so things were a bit quiet but the longer women were stuck with their abusers, the busier KWS got.

Other assumptions that are made are that domestic violence is part of some cultures or socio-economic status, which is simply not true. Pike said that through the years, KWS has not seen any correlation when it comes to survivors who come to them for resources and those women含羞草研究社檚 backgrounds.

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This month, Pike said KWS will be putting an extra focus on their outreach and education efforts, showing the community the resources they have available, including counselling services, as well as preventative services for children who have been exposed to or have experienced domestic abuse.

The goal of Domestic Violence Awareness Month, she said, is to have more people be aware of what they are fighting against and what they are trying to help people get out of.

含羞草研究社淛ust having that awareness, as a community member helps you then be able to look around and think 含羞草研究社榟ey, I should check in with everybody and see if they含羞草研究社檙e OK含羞草研究社�. And if you do come across somebody who may be in need of our services, well you know exactly who to contact and suggest where they should go and what they can experience on the other end,含羞草研究社� she said.

Often, we think that the only sign to look for is bruising on someone but it含羞草研究社檚 a lot more complex than that, Pike added.

含羞草研究社淲hat we see often is a change in behaviour or mood, which can be brushed off as having a bad day or another mental health situation,含羞草研究社� she said.

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If you would like to help women affected by domestic abuse, you can find more information on how to do that and ways to donate on the KWS .

Resources are also available through the .

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