For the past 12 years, Jim Gonczol, 85, travelled from Maple Ridge to New Westminster every day, rain or shine, to visit his wife in a care home.
He was on his way to see her again Tuesday around 6:30 a.m., when he was hit and killed by a van while walking on 228th Street to the bus loop in downtown Maple Ridge while it was snowing.
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He was mostly a welder who retired on time 20 years ago.
Papa Jimmy worked on aircraft in Hungary after the Second World War, during the 1950s. His work launched a lifelong love of aircraft, and 含羞草研究社渉ead in the clouds含羞草研究社� dreams about space exploration, said Forstved.
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Forstved said everyone who knew his step dad knew him as a fun person with a way of getting people to lower their guard.
He got acquainted with people on the bus, which he travelled daily.
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Twenty six years ago, Papa Jimmy married Tula.
They had a happy life together.
But 14 years ago, Tula is believed to have suffered a stroke, followed by dementia.
Papa Jimmy looked after her for two years at their home on 228th St.
Eventually, her needs demanded professional care, and they found her a place to stay in the Salvation Army Buchanan Lodge in New Westminster.
He travelled to be with her every day.
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At first, he was able to drive. But failing eyesight made him surrender his driver含羞草研究社檚 licence about six years ago. So he would trek up 228th St., walking about a kilometre to Haney Place bus loop.
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Lately, he needed a cane or walker, to steady himself. On Monday, his walker filled with snow, so he turned around to go fetch his cane.
On a good day, the trip to New West would take him about 90 minutes to two hours each way.
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Forstved tracked down his step dad at the care home on Monday. They stopped at a White Spot on the way home and he bought Papa Jimmy one of his favourite meals.
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He told Papa Jimmy not to walk to the bus stop the next day, adding his health was not great. A couple of months earlier, he had a fall while making his daily trek.
Getting medical attention, his doctor found his heart rate at only 30 beats per minute, below the 60-100 in a normal adult.
Papa Jimmy got a pacemaker placed in his chest to regulate his heartbeat.
Forstved took his step dad home. It had been a long day. He put him to bed. He gave him a kiss on his head.
The next day, Tuesday, as the worst winter storm of the year was blowing itself out, Papa Jimmy was up early.
He was out the door before dawn.
It was dark and snowing.
He was walking south down 228th St. in the vehicle lane. There was snow on the sidewalks.
Just before he reached Dewdney Trunk Road, he was .
Witnesses told police it was a slow-speed collision.
Ridge Meadows RCMP said speed and alcohol were ruled out factors.
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