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To make Christmas at the Berwick extra special, Shaw explained they are planning to take their residents to Hawaii - or rather - to bring Hawaii to them.
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She said humans love to problem solve, and while it is an amazing characteristic, it can also lead to trouble as not all problems are solvable, such as some grief, loss or change.
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Looking for places to turn for help? Call the BC Mental Health Support Line (no area code needed): 310-6789; it含羞草研究社檚 free and available 24 hours a day. The Suicide Hotline is available if you are in distress or worried about someone else; it is free and available 24 hours a day: 1-800-784-2433.
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