ANGP?

It means All Night Grad Party. I know, I know, you don含羞草研究社檛 need a lecture about safety, drinking, drugs, or making smart choices. After all, you含羞草研究社檙e a senior and about to graduate 含羞草研究社� you know it all.

I also know that every year a parent is met at the door by a police officer and told that their graduating teen is dead or injured because of an accident at some bush party or a choice made to get behind the wheel drunk or stoned. There含羞草研究社檚 also the lifetime sentences caused by alcohol/drug-fueled sexual assaults, permanent disfigurement from a crash, fights, or humiliation through video and social media.

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Note to parents/aunties/friends: If you have an agreement with a young person to call you (no matter what time or circumstance) to pick them up, then just do it. Don含羞草研究社檛 lecture or judge or ground because believe me, next time they won含羞草研究社檛 call.

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8. Find an alternative to the ANGP. Grad committees did this by adding in and supporting Dry Grad. There are many ways to celebrate and have fun with your friends without getting wasted and putting yourself (and possibly others), in harm含羞草研究社檚 way.

9. Don含羞草研究社檛 be a statistic. You don含羞草研究社檛 want to be that roadside memorial tribute with the fake flowers and half filled balloon flopping in the wind. A dead teenager kills all their potential. Get it?

10. Last, but definitely not least have some respect for yourself and others. Stop and think about how your actions, words, and choices are a reflection of who you are and how they can affect another.

Have fun, but be safe.

Faye Arcand is a freelance columnist living in the South Okanagan.